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Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Being a parent, life changes

Well today is Oct 3. We are getting married in 44 days. Soooo excited.
We kind of did everything backwards, but wouldn't change it for the world. We moved in together almost 3 years ago, then just recently had our amazing son, Mason. He is 6 months and makes us laugh when we don't feel like it, when he is not with us, we talk about him, and smile. The most amazing thing you could do with your life is be a parent. Your child teaches you the simplest of things such as, trust, forgiveness, first and formost, patience.
I just saw on the Today show this morning this guym who had a vesictiomy (sp?) at 28 years old, he never wanted children. He said it wasn't that he did like kids, he just didn't want any of his own, he didn't want that responsibily. I don't care who you are, that is probably the most selfish thing a man can do... Let me tell you this, he is going to miss out on a lot of amazing women purely because most womens dreams are to have children in their lifetime. How could you go through life without them? You would be so alone.
We are young, but this has always been what I wanted, if not now I would have tried for a baby, within the next year or two. I want to be able to play with my grandchildren, without being scared of hurting myself.

with all this said. Being a parent is the most amazing thing in the world. Brittie your going to love it!

1 comment:

love_b said...

Yay!! You're bloggin too! Ha, so fun! I know im so excited to be a mommie dearest! love you ash, give mason kisses from us! XoXo